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Parent
education and the role of young fathers: Response to Diana Slaughter-Defoe's
Constance Clayton lecture "What shall I tell my children
who are Black?"
Alton
C. Strange, Ph.D.
Special Projects Assistant
School District of Philadelphia Office of Transition & Alternative
Education
My
remarks will briefly focus on parent education and the role of
young fathers. The research on parent education has focused primarily
on the dynamic between mother and child. The needs of young fathers
have been ignored and their importance has been downplayed, except
when discussing dysfunction as Dr. Slaughter-Defoe alluded to
in her presentation.
Young
fathers have also been largely ignored when it comes to social
service programs. According to Mazza (2002), of the large number
of adolescent maternity and mother-baby programs available in
the US, few focused on young fathers. Further, Mazza found that
of the programs that were available to young fathers, the concentration
of these offerings was on pregnancy prevention (p. 681). The absence
of parent education programs for young fathers has allowed these
young fathers to shun their parental responsibilities while experiencing
few consequences. It could also be argued that the lack of parent
education for young fathers could contribute to many of these
young fathers having multiple children with multiple adolescent
girls.
It
is time to examine ways to provide parent education for young
fathers and hold them responsible for the welfare of their children.
This past summer, I was asked along with Probation Officer Bennie
Price to develop a Fatherhood Initiative program for the Family
Court and the School District of Philadelphia. This program, which
we call Teaching and Uplifting Responsible Fatherhood (TURF) will
serve adjudicated, delinquent youth ages 12-17 who are on probation
and are fathers. Since neither myself nor Officer Price were experts
in this area, we met with representatives from city and private
organizations that specialized in facilitating fatherhood initiatives
and programs. From these meetings, we found that there was only
one fatherhood initiative program in Philadelphia that served
the young adult population; all the other programs catered to
adults.
That
program was the MARS (Males Achieving Responsibility Successfully)
program, which is run by the Communities in School organization
and is located in 15 of the 22 comprehensive high schools of the
School District of Philadelphia. MARS focuses on parenting skill
workshops, lecturers, academic and personal enrichment, and counseling.
However, not all young fathers enrolled in these high schools
take advantage of MARS because the program is voluntary. The program
that my colleague and I have developed would expand the MARS program
by mandating that participation be a part of the probation requirements
for adjudicated, delinquent youth. This would ensure that the
young fathers attended school regularly and were learning valuable
parenting, academic, social, and personal development skills.
Our program also would add an after-care program where participants
would learn valuable job readiness skills, learn how to become
self-sufficient, be provided with social services to assists with
psychological and personal needs, and learn how to navigate the
Family Court system as it pertains to child custody and monetary
support. We will also develop program aspects that focus on developing
a relationship with the mothers of their child or children that
would lead to shared responsibility for the welfare of the child
or children.
The
program that my colleague and I have developed is in the final
stages of approval. The uniqueness of this program is its objective,
which is to affect the young father holistically by combining
education (academic and parental), social and psychological services,
job readiness, mentorship, and parental responsibility. Lastly,
this program brought together two systems - education and probation
- that do not have a history of collaboration.
Dr.
Slaughter-Defoe's presentation provided us the opportunity to
challenge traditional views of parent education. By expanding
the boundaries though research, we may help to shape a whole new
agenda that would take parent education in a direction that is
empowering and even more beneficial to the populations we serve.
References
Mazza,
Carl. (2002). Young dads: The effects of a parenting program on
urban African-American adolescent fathers. Adolescence,
37 (148), 681-693.
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